If you’re going through hell, keep going

Posted on October 11, 2011 by Rich

I was talking to a good friend tonight, and she is going through that rough part of therapy that brings all of your rage to the surface. It reminded me of the note that I see every time I walk into my therapist’s office, “If you’re going through hell, keep going”. It’s a good reminder that the therapeutic process will bring up all sorts of avoided emotions to the surface and even though you may feel like things are getting worse, so worse that it even feels like hell, that you must keep going to really process it all.

I would get glimpses to that end but become increasingly frustrated when I would fall into another bout of nihilistic rage or depression (flip side of the rage coin). As with any emotional experience it is very difficult to relay the knowledge of experience intellectually so all I can honestly say is that there is another side and you will not feel rage or depression to the degree that it is as now if you keep going. Many people get to the point in therapy where the rage and depression comes up, and they stop because they think therapy is not helping. Unfortunately this is the wrong place to stop going to therapy. I’ve seen people who stop at this point and remain full of rage and they usually project it on the world. You can usually spot these types because they have 90% negative and angry posts on their twitter or Facebook. This is coming from personal experience as I bailed out of therapy when things got too intense and experienced a year of hell without having someone to help me through it. Fortunately I found a new therapist who helped me continue the process.

I would like to say I am completely on the other side of the rage stage, but I doubt it. I see it as more of a process of acceptance rather than a complete elimination of that rage. I’ll always have that part of me that feels wronged and hurt by the world. It is part of my programming that was put in place to help me get out of the situations that were keeping me in place and frustrated. My anger and rage propel me out of bad situations into safe situations where I can process my emotions. I love my anger and have come to accept it as an extremely important emotion for my well-being.

That doesn’t mean that my anger consumes me. It has been quite the opposite. The more I accepted the huge backlog of anger that I had, the less it overwhelmed me over time. When I feel rage, it feels like it will always be that way, so it is difficult to convince myself of anything else, but my bouts of rage and depression have become much easier to process when they do come up.

I hugely empathize with those who are going through therapy and get to the stage with the overwhelming anger, depression and rage. Those emotions are so all consuming and can make you feel like life just needs to stop for awhile so you can process them. Unfortunately most of us don’t have the luxury to do this so the best thing to do is make some time for yourself to feel those emotions, express them and process them. I personally find a good mosh pit to be a good cure. Or a heavy hike. I also occasionally do more destructive things such as breaking bottles on train tracks. As long as you can find a way to get the rage flowing without hurting yourself or others, you will be able to process it.

Another common feeling that comes up when these emotions come to the surface is the feeling of isolation. I never felt so alone when I experience the depths of my rage or depression. But if you listen to music closely enough, especially heavy metal or hip-hop, you can find others who feel just like you. One of my favorite introspective/depression albums has been Man on the Moon by Kid Cudi. I relate very much to the lyrical content and style of the songs. It captures the depth of that transition in life.

So just remember, if you are going through hell don’t stick around on the surface. Keep going deeper, you will emerge on the other side.

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Do you remember? When we were young and we wanted to set the world on fire?

Posted on October 8, 2011 by Rich

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I never really found my tribe. There were political parties, philosophies, Internet groups and a handful of other social experiments that I tried that all helped me to better form my words around how I felt about life. In the end of all of these experiments I walked away feeling the same dogma and ultimate conformity that I was trying to escape.

One of these experiments nearly blew my relationship with my family completely apart and ended many friendships. Fortunately many of these wounds are being healed, and although the shape of my relationship with my family will never be the same, at least now it’s more honest than ever. I do have a great group of friends who listen to what I have to say without looking at me like I am a nut case and certainly do not ostracize me for my ever evolving views. Maybe that is my tribe, but I do not think any of them will ever fully understand or support my viewpoint. And that is probably a good thing since I do not like dogma.

So once again I’m a philosophical free agent, careful not to attach an ism to the way I think.

As a result of my last experiment I have become skeptical of any new mass social uprising. Skeptical is not the right word. Cynical is more like it. That ounce of hope I had when the Occupy movement began a few weeks ago was quickly stomped out by the mainstream media’s reports of the manifestos that were emerging from these groups. After that I was more quick to make fun of the movement rather than try and understand what was really happening.

As the day grew nearer to the large protest in New York and the smaller gatherings around the country, I started to itch to see what was happening. I almost didn’t but then I saw a post on a Facebook friend’s wall that cut at me. She accused those of not taking a closer look at Occupy to be “arm chair philosophers”. There is no greater insult to me than to be accused of being all thought and no action. So instead of stewing in my own anger I decided to step back and see why this post (which was not even necessarily aimed at me in particular) had set me off. I realized that my passion for action had been burned down and I had become more prone to criticize others’ action rather than try to understand it. I could have just beat myself up about it but decided to take a trip down to downtown Atlanta and figure out what Occupy Atlanta was all about.

To give those readers who are not familiar with me and the way I think a better perspective, I am one of those starry eyed idealists who can not stand violence in any form as a solution to social problems. What that translates into in reality is that I do not trust any group or persons authority over me to make decisions for me or anyone else. You could call me an anarchist, although I do not like to use that concept to fully explain what I think. Mainly because it often paints a picture of an angry molotov cocktail throwing teen dressed in black. But what it really comes down to for me is that I think it would be grand if people could live their lives however they see fit and not use violence to force their ideas onto others.

And that is the spirit I think a lot of people have, until they are oppressed. What has happened world wide lately is that people are starting to wake up to the different ways they are oppressed. From the unequal distribution of government representation and power to the unequal distribution of economic power, everyone can find an area in their lives where they are unable to move freely about without bumping into someone else’s idea of a good world. And they’d rather have that power than see some other group of people have it.

So I went to the rally not knowing what to expect. I hoped to find a few more philosophical types who wanted to see the old economic system of crony capitalism to fall and start anew, but I realized a long time ago that people had twisted their concepts up too badly to hope for that. So I went seeking a general spirit of change and progress. Below is a video I took of the event. I suggest watching it before you continue reading.

Occupy Atlanta from Road Rich on Vimeo.

Since I was seeking the general spirit, let me tell you how I felt about the rally. Overall it was fairly exciting to see a group of young people in the open demonstrating their grievances with the system. Many of the demands had the spirit of goodness towards humanity, which even I could see and understand. We all want a world where everyone can be safe, have open access to information and get the care they need in hard times. My huge issue with demands and rights is that as soon as you start talking about universal rights for humanity, that means a group of people must exist to enforce these universal rights with the threat of violence. That means that if I as an individual disagree with the demand for the right to free and open Internet, it doesn’t matter because there will be someone in power waiting to lock me up if I do not contribute to the system. That is where I no longer see the peace in the peace signs that were held up. This is where democracy becomes the tyranny of the majority and just another dogmatic system that I feel completely out of place in.

Does that mean I’m right? Does that mean we should all be non-violent idealists? If I look at reality I would have to say no. Most of all I would just like those who value peace so highly to realize that their demands are ultimately violent. Does that mean they are bad people? No. Just misguided.

Ultimately I do not feel a huge urge to support the Occupy movement, but I am still curious to watch it evolve. I will likely be at more gatherings with my camera in hand to document this new incremental movement in our species’ social evolution. I might not agree philosophically with the demands that have been put forward by the local group, but have to admit the spirit is much more hopeful than the spirit of those who currently hold a position of power. (The chanting does feel a little culty though)

As far as my personal feelings go about mass social movements, especially anarchism, I leave you with this beautiful song by Against Me! I always play it when I feel once again separated from another tribe.

And if you see me at a rally, I’d love to talk to you and learn more. I may not agree with your ideals, but I love to hear a different perspective. And I would certainly never want to want violence used against you just because you hold those ideas. And please contact me if you’d like to talk more about this. I love meeting new people.

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Santa Land

Posted on October 3, 2011 by Rich

You wake up one day and notice that everything around you feels a little extra… Christmasy. Women around you don tiny pendants of reindeer antlers around their necks. Some cars have plastic emblems of Christmas tree ornaments on the back. There are buildings dedicated to the celebration of Saint Nick on almost every other city block.

At first it seems kind of fun. Kind of quaint. It’s Christmas every day!

But then you talk to the people around you. You start to realize that Santa isn’t just a fun story to go along with gift giving. He’s their god. They believe he is real. You notice big black billboards with black and white pictures of sad looking children that have big white block letters that say, “Have you been naughty or nice?” You rush home and turn on the news. You see reports of suicide bombings in other countries, all done in the name of the holiest of elves. You switch the channel to see a politician who believes that the world was made in a factory by elves and that this belief should be taught in schools. People knock on your door and tell you to prepare, that Santa is returning and will either bring life or death depending on whether you have been naughty or nice. Some people give up their livelihoods to live in foreign countries and spread the word of Christmas to people who have never had the chance to understand the miracle that happens on December 25th. Also the country you live in has increased security measures in order to protect you from other violent Santa loving sects. Travel is more difficult and many are put on watch lists for speaking out against the new restrictions.

Your head spins at this madness. You don’t know what to do. You look up your family and friends in this alternate reality and tell them that you do not believe in Santa Claus. Some are just amused that you would say something so naive, others become enraged. You feel alone and wonder if you are insane. Most of the world seems to believe Santa Claus, the elves and Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer are all real and once lived on the North Pole. Speaking of the North Pole, it is a war torn land occupied by two different Santa Claus worshipping sects, both believing that the land there is their own. Thousands are killed every year in missile attacks, suicide bombings and brutal military beatings. You are just lucky that you ended up in part of the world where you are only laughed at or yelled at for your lack of belief.

Then you wake up from this nightmare, but nothing has really changed. Because you are an atheist. And the world seems just as insane.

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Idealist Within

Posted on September 27, 2011 by Rich

I am an idealist. That’s not accurate. A part of me is an idealist. I forget that sometimes, especially when suddenly and unexpectedly that side of me has the proverbial steering wheel. It has been the most difficult part of my personality to integrate because it doesn’t want to be integrated. That side of me sees anything outside of its own conclusions as wrong and any sort of cooperation as a compromise. So I often end up just pushing it to the back seat as a result.

Today I got into the much dreaded Facebook argument. I posted a politically charged article and made fun of it. Consciously I thought I was just being funny. But deep down inside the idealist within was priming my Facebook page for a political debate. I fell right into my own trap.

If you haven’t noticed, I’ve been much more politically toned down than I used to be. Most of my posts on Facebook and other social outlets are more geared towards humor or my non-politically-polarizing passions. That has been a conscious effort, mainly because I no longer find discussing politics to be enjoyable. But in that conscious effort I did stifle the idealistic part of me. So it came as no surprise today when I was easily pulled into a political debate that went nowhere.

I realized this a bit too late and after some snarky comments (a couple on my part) I decided to delete the entire thread. I did this because I was not proud of my interaction. It wasn’t a true reflection of who I am completely. It was just one voice and I did little to consult with the other parts of myself before I ran full speed ahead into the wall of politics.

To those involved I sent messages to help them understand my mindset and apologize for any behavior that I was not proud of.

So what does this mean for the future of the idealist side of myself? It’s tough to negotiate with a part of me that doesn’t want to negotiate. Because I am at an impasse, I am more prone to butt heads with other idealists. I can’t just stuff that side of me down again though, otherwise I’ll end up barreling head first into ideological discussions without being curious or pursuing the truth.

I want to see the truth of the world and an idealist is great at cutting through the bullshit. The flip side of an idealist is being not being able to accept things and people for what they currently are. It becomes extraordinarily frustrating to view the world through the lens of an idealist. No peace can ever be found because he wants the world to be perfect, and the world never will be. So I understand the virtue in having that part of my personality but I also see the problems with giving it complete control of who I am.

I’d like to end this by saying I have it figured out, but I really don’t. The idealist in me no longer has driving privileges and it has been a peaceful ride up until lately. Now he’s grasping for the wheel again and I do not know what to do. There has to be a compromise without making him cringe at the word.

Good Enough

Good enough is another theme that makes the idealistic side of me cringe. It’s a concept I have been struggling with, but is the only concept I have found that brings me peace. Another concept that goes hand in hand with idealism is perfectionism, so you perfectionists might understand what I am talking about as much as the idealists do.

I know that everyone doesn’t have the fervent passion for knowledge that I do. I try to say that without feeling condescending towards others, but even I cringe a little typing that. What I dislike about people not having that passion is the fear of my own limits. Right now for example. I am in conflict with myself and don’t know how much effort I have to put into this dilemma. This is a struggle to see reality for what it is and the idealist within feels insulted by the challenge that it is not seeing reality for what it is. I almost want to throw my hands up and give up trying for an inner reconciliation but I know that giving up would probably just make things worse.

If one good lesson is to be learned form any of this is further understanding of my own and others limits for trying to understand reality. Accepting that in myself and in others is the big challenge.

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Darmok and Jalad

Posted on July 4, 2011 by Rich

A few days after my post about the concept continuum, I remembered this episode of Star Trek.

I think it is a good way of showing how concepts are used at different parts of the continuum. Some use metaphor to communicate where others user more refined concepts.

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Concept Continuum

Posted on June 25, 2011 by Rich

I’ve been struggling to put an idea I have into words.  I think it may be better suited as a visual representation since the very concept I am talking about is, well, concepts.

However, every time I try to draw it out I am unsatisfied.  I tried drawing it as an upside down cake and a graph on an x an y axis.  Both visuals didn’t quite encompass what I wanted to convey.  So I’ll stick to my skill set and try to describe my view on concepts using concepts.

I see concepts as a continuum.  (The following is a bit of a wild ride and may just confuse and frustrate more than further illuminate, so you may want to skip to the conclusion first and then go back to reading this.)

But before I talk about the continuum of concepts I first want to try my best to define what concepts are in simple language.  This may be a bit insulting to the ears of a philosopher, but I am not trying to speak only to philosophers.  I want most people to understand this.  A concept is an idea.  As humans we represent concepts with symbols.  For example we represent a quantity with the concept of numbers.  The symbols we use for these numbers (in English at least) are 1,2,3,4 etc…  Most of us go about our lives using these symbols and concepts in a completely automatic and natural way.  Even those who think about what concepts and symbols are continue on autopilot when using them most of the time.

I think it is important to step back and see concepts for what they are in order to understand and navigate reality better.  For the longest time I thought that what we needed to do is increase the number of concepts we use and reduce the definitions.  An example of this would be expanding a language to contain more words but each word would have a more exacting meaning.  The purpose of this would be so we can communicate reality with one another in a more efficient manner.

But then I remembered metaphor and how much I love metaphor to communicate.  Metaphor is a much more primitive form of concept making.  It takes fewer words and seemingly infinite definition to convey ideas in a more “feeling” sort of away rather than a “thinking” way.

So once again I realized I was making a false dichotomy by trying so desperately to define everything in my world with pure concepts.  Certain ideas are so huge that only metaphor can be used to convey the ideas to multiple people.

So back to the continuum of concepts.

At one side you have crude metaphors as a way of representing ideas.  Broad definitions, few words.  This shows up most in our culture as art.  Music, poetry, psychological movies, and abstract art are a few examples.

On the other end you have words that represent something perfectly in objective reality.  Infinite words, specific definitions.  I think the concept of a pure concept to be something that we can approach as humans, but never achieve due to our evolutionary limitations.  So I recognize this end of the spectrum as some form of infinity, if you were to think of it mathematically.  None-the-less I need it in order to define what I am trying to describe. The way pure(er) concepts show up in our society are as science, math and more open philosophies.

I said I was going to describe this because I couldn’t figure out a good representation but as I was writing this a graph popped into my mind that seems to explain this.

I now wish I had have paid more attention in my higher math classes because the next part of this could probably be combined with this graph in order to make even further sense of the concept continuum and why it is important to us.

As a species we use our concepts in an increasingly divergent way.  We have more and more words but we are also increasing our definitions.  I think this is changing the size of the graph but not the shape.  But that doesn’t matter as much as accepting where we can put a dot on that graph for our language as a species.  An average of course, as there are millions of points created by each concept we hold.

Now that I look at this graph I realize why it is not complete.  There is another continuum to be considered.  That’s the continuum of what is real and what is not.  I don’t know if this is a Z axis or if it can even be successfully represented graphically.

Conclusion(for now):  We have our concept continuum.  And then we have reality.  What we are trying to do with our concepts is describe and relate reality to one another.  Metaphors are useful in quickly relating reality in a “feeling” way to one another.  Pure(er) concepts are useful in relating reality in a “thinking” way to one another.  Cognitive distortion is when we think of our metaphors as pure concept and our pure concepts as metaphors.  For example, many still believe that there is a god.  I think  this concept belongs on the metaphor end of the scale where someone else puts it on the pure concept end of the scale.  From what we can detect with the devices that allow us to go beyond our own senses, there is no evidence of god as an objective concept.  So when god is assigned to a pure concept rather than a metaphor our brains are out of line with reality.  On the other end of the spectrum is taking a feeling (anger for example) and attributing it to a pure concept.  Anger can not be conveyed successfully on that end of the spectrum and is best left to the more metaphorical end of the spectrum.

I might be wrong about all of this but this is how I view reality currently.  And this will play into how I define the concept of morality.  I do not know yet when I will write more on this subject as I think more attention needs to go towards the concept continuum before I just start wildly plotting concepts on this graph.

Let me know your thoughts on this and if you have a better way of conveying what I am trying to convey, I would greatly appreciate it.

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Taboo Concepts: Determinism and free will

Posted on June 13, 2011 by Rich

I’m skipping ahead to determinism and free will because I had a bit of an epiphany on how to properly explain my views on this subject while I was out camping weekend before last. Actually multiple ways of explaining it. Also, I’m not done reading The Ethical Slut yet, so I have yet to have a satisfactory jumbling of words to explain my views on monogamy/polyamory. I guess I am supposed to cover intuition and logic too. Probably should have started with that one. Oh well, too late.

The topic of determinism is one that has utterly frustrated me since the beginning of my philosophical journey. I have flip flopped back and forth between both viewpoints for years now. Ultimately I have decided that there is a middle ground. And no, not the fluffy, vague, flowery, hippy middle ground that you all dreaded. I hope.

There is no way to determine whether we are determined beings or not. That’s it. No more need for discussion.

Ok, maybe a little. First I am taking two extreme definitions here. Define your concepts first. Thanks Rand. For only that. Sorry, off track. Free will: having complete and utter control over your actions. Determinism: actions decided completely by previous events with no choice involved in the next actions. (see causality). I know, I know, you soft determinists are pissed as hell right now. But just stay with me.

We experience free will. We see choices and we experience ourselves making choices. We are limited to what we perceive and can not step outside of our minds to figure out if we are victims of causality or have some unique way of defying physics. So ultimately all that matters is that we experience free will. Whether it be an illusion or not there is very little point claiming free will or determinism because there is no way of proving it. Either we are a) determined beings and have no way of measuring the truth value of anything due to our nature or b) we have free will but never have a way of stepping outside of our own measuring tools to prove it one way or another. It’s an axiom as far as I am concerned, because we can derive no further than the tip of our own synapses the truth of the matter.

At least that’s how I’ve come to peace with the arguments. So what am I? I accept that I experience a limited free will. I accept that I can not determine the truth value of that since I am bound by my own brain to discover that truth.

So if you can accept that I want to take it a bit deeper. I think we are mainly a machine. An extremely complex machine that has evolutionary, experiential and self written programs. It’s the latter that gives us that ounce of experienced free will. We can rewrite our programming to a limited extent through introspection. But the rest is automatic. That is why if you really start to get honest with yourself you can actually observe yourself making actions that are completely against your own thoughts and/or emotions. You can watch the evolutionary and experiential programming keep you in comfort. Sometimes completely helplessly. I take solace in knowing (how ever much I can know) how limited my free will is and recognizing where I do have control. I haven’t fully decided if that control expands as my own self awareness grows, or if it’s just a conscious realization of what programming is permanent and which programming I can change.

Let me try a metaphor if you still are a bit baffled. Our minds are a huge ship. Our perceived free will is the steering wheel. Our actual free will the rudder. We have a choice which way to crank the wheel, how hard we crank it and how much we accept that cranking the wheel is actually having an effect. But until you look under the ship and see if the rudder is responding to the wheel the way you expect it to, the size and shape of the rudder, if the rudder is broken and if the rudder is even there, you have no way of knowing what your wheel is capable of.

Thoughts? Free or not…

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Feminism and empathy

Posted on June 12, 2011 by Rich

*EDIT* I was reminded by a friend that even though I tried my best not to have any implicit or explicit “shoulds”, it can still come across that way since I am a male and have societal privilege due to this. I want to make it clear that I do not think that any feminist, male or female in sex, should or should not take this advice. I am addressing some cognitive dissonance that I see in the social media world and this is the best way I can think of expressing it. It is one of my many goals to help non-feminists understand feminists. I personally try not to dump my anger on non-feminists so I can get their ear. Is that the best way of doing things? Probably not, but it worked well on me and hope it works on others.

I wrote a quick little post on my Tumblr last night that said suggested that feminists problem with communicating their ideas effectively is that they are not empathizing with men and their behavior. How convenient that I deleted that post and I can not post from it directly, because I am sure it was a lot less clear than that. After a short discussion with a friend I realized that I was being completely unempathetic myself by posting that, so I apologize for that brief lapse of empathy. Let me start this off with a little more honesty, so I can avoid the same mistake. I feel frustrated when I read some feminists’ posts.

I came to feminism through effort of my own, but mainly effort of women who cared about me enough to be patient and help me understand their point of view. So when I see angry (and sometimes hateful) posts directed towards men, I get angry myself because I know that was the opposite of what worked on me to change my views. Just browse through some of your favorite social media sites and you will see what I am talking about. It is a minority of posts, I will admit. But those few posts that go beyond anger to hatred are the ones that stick out to me and make it hard for me to follow feminists.

Anger is a great emotion. It helps us overcome fear and do what we need to in order to make changes in our own lives to align ourselves better with what we see as positive for our own growth. I see a good amount of healthy anger amongst feminists and it has helped them to break free of mens’ programmed bullshit. Their anger helps give courage to others who are in similar situations to speak up for themselves and against the oppression they have experienced.

But what about the men that are still heavily embedded in their bad programming? I can still see through their eyes and through their bad programming. Even though I have made a concerted effort to rid myself of that programming. I still remember what it feels like to be a man who thinks of women as less than men (hard to admit, but true). When I was still entrenched in that attitude the anger filled comments about men only embedded me further in my position. I felt a lot of fear and very few were willing to help me work through that fear and look at my programming. I am extremely thankful to those few women who did empathize with me.

Am I suggesting it is feminists responsibility to pull men out of their bad programming? Absolutely not. No group of people who has been oppressed ever, ever, ever has that obligation. That said if it is your goal to create a society where both sexes start on equal footing, I think posting angry and unempathetic comments about men will not help you.

That is where my frustration lies with the expression of any set of ideals (including my own). I am prone to writing of someone as evil, much quicker than I am willing to empathize with and try to understand why that person is against my own ideals. So I completely understand the urge to rage against the machine. I just suggest sitting with those feelings and make sure they don’t come across as hate.

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Taboo Concepts: Morality and Amoralism

Posted on May 19, 2011 by Rich

This topic is the one that got me tumbling down the philosophical rabbit hole.  My first encounter with this subject was religion.  Once I realized that religion did not have the answers I transitioned into the realm of moral relativism.  Since I could still not accept that force could be OK for one person and not another I joined the ranks of moral objectivists and absolutists.  Now I’m at a new crossroads.  I wonder if the concept of morality is so flawed that it needs to be thrown out.  That is why moral nihilism has caught my attention lately.  My extremely base understanding of it is that morality is a concept completely of our species invention.  I have to agree with that and I think most moral objectivists/absolutists would agree too.  It goes on to say that this concept is rooted in subjugation and is thus a false concept and the exploration of ethics needs to be scrapped.  Again, hard for me to disagree.  When I think of morality I think of religion.  I think of someone telling me what I should and shouldn’t do, purely to keep me in control.  On the flip side this is why I have held onto the concept of morality so dearly.  I am afraid that if I abandon it that ultimately I will have no control over other peoples behavior and they may harm me.

So that is why I challenge this concept.  I do not accept my fear as a reason not to explore a subject in depth.  Taboos are all about fear and often that fear is used to control behavior.

In my brief dip into moral nihilism I see that there is less to fear than I originally thought.  Just like anarchism, nihilism has been unfairly stereotyped as the land of the despairing and self destructive.  The nihilistic philosophers that end up getting the most attention are the ones who ideas bloomed into something that hurt people.  I think this can happen with any incomplete philosophy.  Anarchists suffer from this too as most are seen as Molotov cocktail throwing maniacs.

Most of what I have read so far is not the bleak landscape that I was expecting.  Many moral nihilists recognize that humans have a general nature that is gravitating towards peace and away from violence.  What is interesting about this is that there is no need for moral “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts”.  It is just understanding what we are as a species and how concepts like morality had their roots in tribal survival, but are no longer necessary for our genetic well being.  It’s very similar to ideas like atheism and anarchism and how they are rooted in tribal concepts that helped to protect the species but now we have outgrown them.

In this exploration of taboo concepts I think looking at the etymology of the concept is key.  If it is rooted in an idea that humans no longer have a need for, then I think the concept needs to be abandoned.  This is a discussion all in itself, but without understanding these roots I do not think these ideas can be discussed effectively.

For now I think morality and the study of it (ethics) are far too rooted in subjugation and tribal control to be a valid concept.  I think the entire study needs to be reconsidered and redefined.

Does that mean I am going to accept murder and force?  Of course not.  I still think there is a good reason that humans are shifting away from violence as a solution towards voluntary cooperation as a better solution.  I am just hesitant to call it morality.  And I am hesitant to write off people who still adhere to the old ideas as just evil.  Otherwise I’d be celebrating Osama’s death along with most others.

What are your thoughts on these concepts?  Most importantly, how does it make you feel to explore them?

I am extremely resistant to even post this because I know that those who do not agree with me may question if they want to associate with me.  But again, I am doing my best to not let fear control my questions and exploration of those questions.

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Taboo Concepts

Posted on May 19, 2011 by Rich

I’ve been slowly organizing a list in my mind of ideas that are still pretty taboo, even amongst the philosophical. In an attempt to keep myself from falling into dogma, I am going to explore each of these topics over time on my blog. I could try to set a goal for myself to explore one topic a week, but I know myself well enough to avoid that.  Setting strict goals usually ends in me abandoning a project.

Here’s my primary list. I will expand on it as new subjects arise spontaneously. This list is purely from my own observation of extremely contentious subjects.  Personally these are all subjects that are not a “closed case” in my mind, which is really my main reason for opening up this discussion.

  1. Morality and amoralism (some of the subjects below are heavily rooted in these opposing concepts, which is why I put them first on the list)
  2. Monogamy and polyamory
  3. Intuition and logic
  4. Determinism and free will
  5. You versus me
  6. Forgiveness

There are many other subjects I want to cover but these are the most pressing for me.  I encourage you to reply to these posts with your thoughts.  I encourage you to use other mediums, such as Tumblr, to respond.

My goal here is to come to a better understanding of these concepts and maybe even throw the concepts out and start over.  If they make you too nervous to respond in a meaningful way, first question why.  If you are able to process that, feel free to respond.

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